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Sam Horn
How Can I Turn a NO into a YES?
Posted by Oct 04, 2011
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Sam Horn
During a recent Win Buy-In: Get Anyone Intrigued in Anything in 60 Seconds workshop I gave in Europe, a participant raised his hand and asked, “What can we do if we anticipate our decision-maker is going to say no? Do you have a way to turn that into a yes?”
Me: “Certainly. What do you have in mind?”
Participant: “Well, my son is on a traveling soccer team. We just hired a professional player to coach his team and we need to raise money for his salary.”
Me: “So, how are you planning to do that?’
Participant: “Well, we’re going to approach our local bookstore, but we know the owner gets hit up for donations all the time.”
Me: “Good for you. You’re already half way to winning buy-in because you’ve already put yourself in the shoes of your decision-maker and read his mind. Make it easy for him to say yes."
Me: "Ironically, the key to getting a yes is to ask yourself, ‘Why will they say no?'"
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